{"id":5710,"date":"2023-02-03T11:26:10","date_gmt":"2023-02-03T16:26:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lorelei.jennysmith.net\/?p=5710"},"modified":"2023-02-03T11:31:37","modified_gmt":"2023-02-03T16:31:37","slug":"start-new-relationship-your-money","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorelei.jennysmith.net\/?p=5710","title":{"rendered":"Make This 1 Change &#038; Start a New Relationship with Your Money"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pretty much everything I read about personal finance these days is filled with:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Manage your money<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Control your money<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Master your money<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Harness its power<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Honestly &#8211; YUCK.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Money is an extension of YOU. Learn more about this with <a href=\"http:\/\/lorelei.jennysmith.net\/what-is-money\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"5666\">What is Money?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-wp-embed is-provider-sustainable-wealth wp-block-embed-sustainable-wealth\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\nhttp:\/\/lorelei.jennysmith.net\/what-is-money\/\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">You and Your Money Are One.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You give your value to the world and most often, you receive money for it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Do you need managing?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Do you need to be controlled?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Do you need to be mastered?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Do you allow people to harness your power?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I&#8217;m hoping your answer is NO!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>If you love yourself, then you love your money too.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And if you&#8217;re in a loving relationship with yourself and your money, why would you want to dominate it?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Do we dominate the things that we love?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">NO<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">We respect them. We honor them. We work WITH them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">How Do You Work WITH Your Money?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You first change the language you use to describe your relationship with your money. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The words we use are <a href=\"https:\/\/news.stanford.edu\/2019\/08\/22\/the-power-of-language-how-words-shape-people-culture\/\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/news.stanford.edu\/2019\/08\/22\/the-power-of-language-how-words-shape-people-culture\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">incredibly important<\/a> as they define our experience. So if you want to relate to your money differently, you must start by changing the language you use to describe the relationship. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Here are some examples of how you can change your language:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>I don&#8217;t manage my money -&gt; I work with my money.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>I don&#8217;t control my money -&gt; I create with my money.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>I don&#8217;t harness the power of my money -&gt; I work with my money to amplify our impact.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Speak these phrases aloud and tell me what happens.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Do you notice a shift?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Is there more space in your body? Feel expansion?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Do you feel more relaxation and openness?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Maybe some excitement?! Maybe some joy?!<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Maybe even a SMILE?!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Let me know in the comments what happens to you when you shift the language you use to describe your money!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tired of dominating your money? 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